I’m often asked, “Do people have sex with strippers in Vegas Strip Clubs?” or some similar question. My answer is always, “It’s against the law…but it happens every day.” At this point, people usually ask me what are their chances and how to make it happen. Here is my best answer.
But first, let me put all the wives and girlfriends who read this blog at ease. Most Guys don’t go to the strip club looking for sex…
They are looking to appreciate the beautiful women. They are going to see acrobatic pole tricks and dance moves. They are going to talk to a beautiful women because they feel like they can’t open up with their wives or girlfriends. In fact, most men are less likely to have sex with a stripper than with other women they meet in other social settings. Here’s another post on this subject. Sociologist Katherine Frank even studied the subject in great detail and concluded that strip clubs actually often strengthen marriages. Her book on the subject is “The G-String and Sympathy.”
Most dancers in Vegas strip clubs NEVER have sex with customers inside or outside the club.
Ever. They don’t want the legal risk. . They are entertainers and they make good money entertaining without having sex with customers. In fact, I’ll be posting soon on how to pick up and date strippers and one of the cardinal rules is to never be viewed by her as a customer.
But some do…
I’m aware of 4 strip clubs in Vegas where it happens quite regularly. One club in particular has a reputation among locals as being the “blow job” club. These clubs tend to be the smaller lower ranked strip clubs with very few customers. One club in particular had a dancer who paid the club $10,000 a month to rent one of their private VIP rooms. She made the money back by performing sex in that room. I’m familiar with the situation because she propositioned me and I’ve seen and heard her proposition others and confirmed the details with club staff. She is no longer a dancer at the club. My observation and experience is that is usually the less desirable dancers who are desperate to make money.
So It Happens…
How likely is it to happen for you? Depends…it depends on your definition of sex. If you don’t call it sex unless you penetrate her vagina with your cock, it’s much less likely than if your definition is getting a blow job or having a dancer grind on you until you come in your pants–this happens quite often dancers tell me. It also gives them legal protection because they didn’t offer to have sex; at the same time it gives them a reason to ask you for more money.
So, your chances of having sex in the strip club depend on what exactly you mean by “having sex.”
How To Improve Your Chances
If you don’t have body odor or bad breath and you appear to be a decent not creepy person and you’re gentle and courteous you will have lots of dancers who will allow, even encourage you to touch their breasts. You can run your fingers over the nipples and cup their breasts. She may even tell you to kiss or lightly lick her breasts. Being clean and non creepy or rude in and of itself is enough to get a beautiful exciting girl cuddling you grinding on you and rubbing her breasts in your face.
Don’t pinch or tweak nipples unless she asks you to do so.
And certainly in the private rooms you will get more touching.
To increase your odds of actually receiving an offer for a blowjob or handjob, or a meet-up for sex outside the club, show up at the club looking like you have the money for something like that. Dress nice business casual like a man going to a night club, not a boy going to a sports bar.
Can I Get a HJ or BJ or Finger a Stripper?
Again, It happens, but it isn’t likely. There are dancers who do these things working in most clubs in town. But most dancers don’t do these things in the club. The dancers who do sell sexual services want to avoid undercover police and vice squad officers…they also want to avoid nasty creepy guys. And the clubs discourage this behavior as they are risking their license. Prostitution was one of several reasons that Crazy Horse Too was closed.
I’ll guarantee you this. If you ask a stripper for sex you will not get it even if she’s one of the few who does sell sex in the strip club.
You will offend most of them. Plus, She will immediately suspect you’re a vice cop. If she has sex with you for money, she’s breaking the law. Many Vegas Strip Club Dancers have been the victim of entrapment over the years and in court it’s always her word against the cop’s and that never ends well for the stripper.
If you’re looking for more than lap dances or high touch time in the VIP you should show up dressed decently and be polite and then wait and hope the right dancer comes along and offers you sexual activity. You have to wait until a dancer comes along and offers it to you. I’ve had a dancer walk up and say, “I’m horny” and ask if I’d like to solve that problem for her in the VIP. She made it plain she wasn’t looking for any extra money other than the normal charges for VIP time. I’ve had dancers say, “I do things in the private rooms that most of these girls won’t even do with their boyfriends.” Some dancers operate on the CREAM principle. C.R.E.A.M. Cash Rules Everything Around Me. These girls are the ones who want to make extra money fast and go home for the night.
I’ve had a dancer open her purse to show me a condom and say, “Let’s go in the private room and use this.” Some dancers will offer to get together with you the next night if you “buy them off work.” By this they mean pay them an amount that they claim they make per night to spend time with you instead of going in to the club.
Or in the middle of a lap dance or private dance she might say something like, “You know, for a couple hundred more, we could have a lot more fun.” If you ask her what she means by more fun she will lead you in the right direction so to speak.
Can You Date a Vegas Stripper?
YES..BOTH FOR MONEY AND NOT FOR MONEY
What about your chances of getting a dancer to go out with you? I mentioned above that some dancers will let you “buy them off work for the night.” Some call this an outcall…in other words, she will come to you for money. You can ask a dancer if she does outcalls and let the conversation go where it will. I discourage this for reasons discussed above.
With regards to dancers going out with you not for money…I’ll be adding a post soon on this subject and how to improve your chances. But remember, they are women and they do have needs and desires and like most other women they want to keep their dating and sex lives separate from their work.
BOTTOM LINE ANSWER: SOME STRIPPERS HAVE SEX WITH THIER CUSTOMERS. MOST DON’T. IT’S NOT LEGAL BUT IT HAPPENS EVERY DAY IN VEGAS.
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